Tony Makes You Believe Everything Is Possible

Alysha Wearne“I met Tony 7 years ago on my first ever  journey to WA..

What an experience that year was..

Over time Tony not only became my boss but someone I admire, respect and someone who taught me life isn’t a struggle but something you grab by the balls and run with..

Tony and I share something a lot of people don’t and that’s not being afraid to try something different..

What makes family man Tony stand out is his love of life and sheer belief that with hard work EVERYTHING can be achieved and should be..

Tony has the knack to make you excited,  and makes you believe everything is possible..

This genuine man is by far the best!!
Alysha Wearne

Care-giver

Fun days - a 70's party!

Fun days – a 70’s party!

Tony’s Response: Thank you Alysha. I really appreciate your kind words and I’m very glad to have met you.

Your tenacity and forthright approach are traits I greatly admire and I look forward to hearing of your ongoing successes.

Best wishes,

Tony  :-D

Alysha worked with us at a Perth-based tourism business that I owned for 14 years and was an enthusiastic, energetic and valued member of our team.

She formed many friendships with our global family and was well-liked and respected by thousands of customers.

The thing I have always loved the most about business is the people you meet during the journey- genuine people like Alysha!

Pictured here is a scene from a 70’s fancy dress party we held at our tourism business in January 2007.

Cleared to Final

Two of my favourite planes

Two of my favourite planes – Cessna 152 & Piper Warrior

After over two hours on my own, suspended in the tiny Cessna 152 training aircraft, navigating my way over the fields and railway lines of Normandy in north-western France, I was filled with nervous excitement when I spotted an airfield in the distance.

That airfield was Rennes airport and I had never seen it from the air or landed there before.

It was a defining moment in my life story because this was one of the final stages of gaining my Private Pilot’s Licence – a solo cross country flight, landing at Rennes and Dinard before returning to my home base of Jersey, the largest of the English Channel Islands.

For a nineteen year old I was quite mature and confident. In that same year I was promoted to a Deputy Store Manager in a supermarket with 23 staff. That was one thing, but flying solo at two thousand feet over the English Channel, map-reading my way down the French coast and finding an unfamiliar airstrip was quite another test of self-reliance altogether.

I contacted Rennes Air Traffic Control and was cleared to descend and join the circuit.

Although I was still a student pilot, my training had been thorough and I had picked things up quickly owing to a lifetime of affinity with aviation. In fact I had ‘gone solo’ one fine but grey afternoon on the grass airstrip at Lessay, after just nine hours of training – one of the most memorable moments of my life.

Flying solo for the first time had been another defining moment for me – that heart-pounding moment when the instructor says, “When you land this time, pull over on the side of the runway but keep the engine running.’
Then, said my instructor, John Pedley, ‘Ok mate, you’re ready. Just do one circuit, request a full stop this time, park it over there and I’ll see you in the bar. Enjoy yourself.’

Taking my parents to France for lunch

Taking my parents to France for lunch 1981

I was born with avgas in my blood. My father had joined the Air Force as a mechanical apprentice at fifteen and was fixing Spitfires on Malta, Sicily and in Egypt during the War, before a lengthy career as an aircraft engineer for British Airways in Jersey. My eldest brother became a commercial helicopter pilot, having served with the Army Air Corps, and my sister was a stewardess for British Airways. No wonder I loved assembling and painting model aircraft kits as a child.

When I was seventeen, Dad got me a summer holiday job at a small airline he had joined while in semi-retirement, called Intra Airways.

I had the joyful job of cleaning the aircraft on the turnaround between flights. I had felt important, driving support vehicles across the airport apron, putting locking pins in the undercarriage of the old Dakota DC 3’s, wiping oil off the engine cowlings and directing passengers which way to walk to the terminal building. The downside was in having to empty the bucket from the chemical toilet, but even that unsavoury task did not diminish the joy of working with my father and being ‘one of the guys’ at Jersey airport.

So on that July day in 1980, as I joined the downwind leg of the Rennes circuit and began my pre-landing checks, with my hands on the controls, I felt literally as free as a bird.

I think I had goose bumps as the tower controller said, ‘Golf Romeo November – you are clear to final.’

Before I knew it I was cleared to land. The wheels greased smoothly onto the bitumen and I taxied my plane to a parking spot in front of the control tower.

As I turned off the engine, I threw my hands in the air and yelled ‘YESSSSS!’

I think it was a little from nervous relief as it was from exhilaration. The concentration had been intense, realising that the only person I could count on to bring that plane down safely was me.

I had to have my log book stamped by Customs to prove I had been there, before flying on to Dinard, then back to Jersey.

When I gained my wings at the Channel Islands Aero Club in Jersey that Summer, I was very proud of the achievement.

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Tony flying in WA

When I reflect on it though, a large part of my pride stems from the fact that it represented the realisation of a huge dream come true.

I had set the goal to obtain my licence; I had researched what I needed to do; I had sought the finance required – I took out a two thousand pound bank loan; I enrolled in the course; I studied the things I needed to study – navigation, meteorology, principles of flight, air law, radio procedures, airfield procedures, flight planning and much more.

I had made a commitment to myself and I saw it through, overcoming occasional fear and self-doubt, carried with the wind of desire and determination beneath my wings.

As a metaphor for life in general, it was a great testament to the power of a dream.

Sir Winston Churchill once remarked that, ‘Nothing can stop the totally committed will’ and I am a firm believer in his maxim.

If you decide that you really want something, and of course it fits with your ethical and moral values, then if you commit to its completion, and really apply yourself, you can overcome any obstacle, rise to the challenge and live the life of your dreams.

We are blessed to live in a free country, surrounded by resources at our disposal if we will but look and ask. We live in a place where the seemingly impossible can be made to happen, and the difficult – well that just serves to make the challenge worthwhile.

So I hope that you have not given up on your dreams and settled for less because opportunity is all around us.

I recommend that you encourage others as you yourself would like to be encouraged. The power of a good support team is not to be underestimated.

If you would like any help with defining your goals or planning their accomplishment, please feel free to contact me for a chat. I offer a free discovery session.

Life coaching, lifestyle consulting or whatever you prefer to call it, can help you rediscover the dreams and goals you may have filed in the ‘too hard basket’. What if, just maybe, you could still do them?

Do you dare to dream?

Until next time, may you live your life with passion!

Tony Inman

“My quality of life, confidence and skills have certainly improved” – Joanne Small, Perth WA

Joanne Small

Joanne Small – Recruitment Administrator, JHG Perth

“During the last six years Tony has been my career and life mentor.

He has encouraged and coached me to achieve two diplomas, successfully improve my career path and to confidently purchase two investment properties.

My quality of life, confidence and skills have certainly improved due to the patience, kindness and invaluable advice of this professional and inspirational man.”

 

Joanne Small – Recruitment Administrator, John Holland Group

 

If you would like to claim a free discovery session (valued at $150), call today on (08) 9328 2203 or contact Tony Inman- click here

Extremely Close – The Gap Between Failure and Success

Inspirational Video – Jeb Corliss – ‘Grinding the Crack’

Discover what Jeb means by ‘coming extremely close’ in this breathtaking video.

Where in your life are you just playing it safe?

Just to be clear, I’m not suggesting we all do what Jeb does!

I’m just asking you to notice that sometimes the fine margin between disaster and incredible success just requires us to have a little bit of self-belief!

For more information about success coaching, please click here.

Have a great day! :-)

“He really cares about people…” – Halle Yilmaz, Melbourne, Victoria

image-withheld“You can have an open communication with Tony easily.

He really cares about people and he is committed to make a contribution to other people’s life and happiness.

He is a great life coach.”

 

Halle Yilmaz

Managing Director, HQ Business Consulting & HQ Financial Solutions, Melbourne

Empower Yourself or Be Overpowered

Dr John Demartini with Tony Inman

“Any area of your life you don’t empower, someone else will overpower you”. – Dr John Demartini

Dr Demartini is considered one of the world’s leading authorities on human behavior and personal development. He is the founder of the Demartini Institute, a private research and education organization with a curriculum of over 72 different courses covering multiple aspects of human development.

His trademarked methodologies, the Demartini Method and the Demartini Value Determination, are the culmination of 39 years of cross-disciplinary research and study. His work has been  incorporated into  human development industries across the world.

Dr Demartini travels 360 days a year to countries all over the globe,  sharing his research and findings in all markets and sectors. He is the author of 40 books published in 28 different languages. He has produced over 50 CDs and DVDs covering subjects such as development in relationships, wealth, education and business. Each program is designed to assist people to activate leadership and empower themselves in all seven areas of their lives: Financial, physical, mental, vocational, spiritual, family and social.

‘I caught up with him at the recent event in Perth, entitled ‘Business Breakthrough’. He thanked me for coming and complimented me on my tie! In just a few seconds he gave you the feeling that you were the most important person he had met that day. Now that is a gift to which we should all aspire. I told him that it was an honour to meet him.

If you ever get chance to attend one of his seminars, I highly recommend it.’

Tony Inman – ‘The Reinvention Specialist’

Check out Tony’s business site at www.clubred.com.au

Tenacity – an Inspirational Attribute!

Marion-Clignet

Marion-Clignet - World Champion despite Epilepsy

Last night I was very fortunate to attend a lecture from a lady who was nothing short of a revelation.

I have to confess to my ignorance of the sport of cycling, despite watching occasional clips of the Tour de France, that I had never previously heard of Marion Clignet. Yet when I read the invitation from WA Epilepsy Association head honcho, Suresh Rajan, I knew we were in for a treat.

Cyclist, Marion Cligny had been crowned World Champion six times, as well as double Olympic Silver Medalist, ten times French national champion and multiple USA champion, plus a world record breaker in a lengthy and illustrious career in the sport, all despite taking medication for epilepsy.

The audience was obviously in immediate rapport with Marion because most of them either suffered the effects of epilepsy, or their lives had been touched by a connection with someone else who has the ‘condition’.

Nevertheless, it is fair to say that even a person who couldn’t care less about the topic would have been moved by Marion’s inspirational tenacity to overcome any obstacle put before her.

Rejected by the American National Team on the grounds that her having epilepsy might prove a hazard to her teammates, thus effectively discriminated against, Marion accepted an invitation to race for France, courtesy of her French parentage.

Marion also overcame discrimination against her gender in that women do not enjoy anywhere near the level of sponsorship or support as men do, in her chosen sport.

Now effectively retired from competing at the top level, (she just does triathlons for fun!) Marion revealed how a person with epilepsy can suffer a seizure anywhere, anytime. She explained the absurdity with which first aiders can be trained in how to help people who have suffered heart attacks, and have defribulators often readily available, yet the vast majority of the population have no idea what to do if someone has a seizure, nor is emergency medication readily available!

The message from Marion Clignet was delivered in a witty, spellbinding, yet forthright manner – that ‘those who face major adversities can realise their dreams and ambitions and that actually having these hurdles can often become the driving motivation behind their successes.’

In her book, ‘Tenacious’ with Benjamin C Hovey, she concludes, simply yet from the heart, “Where there’s a will, there’s a way”.

Marion Clignet - an inspiration to us all

Marion Clignet - an Inspiration to Us All

“Where there’s a will, there’s a way”.
Marion Clignet


Cycling World Champion

Champion of the Cause of Spreading Awareness of Epilepsy

 

 

This poses the obvious question – If Marion can be a World Champion, despite suffering seizures, can’t the rest of us also  ‘Ride faster, harder and with a smile’? – Thanks Marion :-)

Further information about epilepsy can be obtained from:

Mr Suresh Rajan – Executive Officer

Epilepsy Association of Western Australia

P: (08) 93467699       F: (08)93467696 E: epilepsy@cnswa.com

The Niche Suite B, 11 Aberdare Road, Nedlands WA 6009

My NLP Gurus And How It Really Works

George Faddoul & Tony Inman

George Faddoul & Tony Inman

I am very excited – both about the new skills I have been learning this year, and about the amazing people I have met.

I would like to thank Roberta Faddoul at QC Seminars for her vision in creating the scholarship programme for people wishing to learn about Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP).

My friend, Stan Nelson of the Streetsmarts Self Defence Tactics Academy recommended the NLP course to me and it sounded interesting. Thus  I attended the I-NLP Practitioner Programme in Perth in June.

Matt James & Tony Inman - Perth WA

Matt James & Tony Inman

It was frankly one of the best decisions I ever made. I have always been interested in the subjects of the power of self talk, the psychology of success and body language, so this was right up my street.

It was very quickly apparent to me that George Faddoul and Matt James are masters of their craft – they are gifted teachers and absolute gurus of NLP.

Furthermore, Matt, who is from Hawaii is a master of the esoteric teachings of Hawaiian Huna, which assists you in connecting body and spirit. That’s why I had to wear a Hawaiian shirt, to make him feel at home!

Nik Halik & Tony Inman

Nik Halik & Tony Inman

I was also delighted to meet former Australian astronaut and financial guru, Nik Halik, who was promoting his Sharelord programme.

By the way, here is a modern definition of ‘guru’ from the  Miriam Webster dictionary:

a : a teacher and especially intellectual guide in matters of fundamental concern
b : one who is an acknowledged leader or chief proponent
c : a person with knowledge or expertise : expert
A Real Life Story About The Application of NLP
I used my recently acquired NLP skills to be able to anchor my thoughts to a very empowering moment in my life, which I was then able to put into effect in a very dramatic way.
My partner, Jo’s father recently passed away and the family asked me to deliver the eulogy at his funeral. My initial reaction was that I would struggle to get through the speech without choking. (They do say that a lot of people have such a fear of public speaking, that they would rather be in the coffin than delivering the eulogy!)
My concern was less about the public speaking, because I am pretty at ease with that now, it was about wanting to do a good job for the family. Initially, I didn’t believe I could do it, so I declined and suggested that the celebrant could deliver the speech if I wrote it.
We had a family brainstorming session on anecdotes and I crafted a speech, linking the various stories. When I read it out to the family in the safety of their loungeroom, they implored me to make the speech in public at the funeral.
Having just completed the basic course, I had learned a powerful empowerment technique so now I began to believe I could do it. In fact, being a visual person, I could see myself doing it.
When we entered the room and saw the screen filled with a lifetime of images to the right, a sea of mostly unknown faces to the left, and of course the emotional sight of Alan’s coffin in front of me, my heart started pounding like a steam engine. To say I was a tad nervous would be a huge understatement.
I used the technique to slow my breathing and my heart rate, to calm myself and to change my whole state.
As I stood up to deliver the eulogy and faced that crowd, I knew I could do this.
As the words began to flow, I was able to relax and adjust the tempo, the tone and the timbre of my speech. I have to confess to choking very slightly on the final sentence, in fact to some people it went unnoticed. I was proud that I had been able to do my best to honour the life of a fine man in a way that gave comfort to his family.
Without the NLP skills, I know I would have struggled – in fact I might well have left the job to the celebrant, who had never met the man.
I was so impressed that I then invested in my continuing education by flying to Sydney to attending the 6 day NLP Master Practitioner Course. That too, was life changing.
Nick LeForce & George Faddoul

Nick LeForce & George Faddoul

Once again, we had the wonderful teachings of George Faddoul, accompanied this time by Nick LeForce, another guru in his field.

Just as I had in the first course, I met some extraordinary people on the advanced course, may of whom I believe will be lifetime friends.
When I sold my tourism business I had owned for fourteen years last year, I was at another crossroads in my life.
Now, one year later, having contemplated and explored several opportunities, including writing a novel, I know with clarity where I am heading.
Nick LeForce & Tony Inman

Nick LeForce & Tony Inman

My future lies in helping and inspiring others to achieve amazing successes.

NLP is another wonderful tool to put in my personal toolbox to assist me in my mission.

For those who have known me for a while, I can also tell you that with the help of NLP, I am now progressively regaining the fitness of my youth, and will be running the Perth City to Surf 12 km fun run on the 28th August, sponsored by local charity, the Activ Foundation and by Chevron.

If you want to learn more about NLP, see George’s link here, where you can obtain his free DVD on ‘How To Get A Bigger Bite Out Of Life’ , or contact me using the form on this website.

Until next time, live your life with passion!

Happy New Year! Time for some Resolutions or Changes?

Welcome to 2011

Happy New Year 2011

Firstly, let me wish you the best year of your life so far, along with a few comments about the ‘challenges’ ahead.

Heraclitus of Ephesus (c.535BC – 475 BC) espoused the theory that:

“Everything flows, nothing stands still.”

In our hectic world where change is the only constant, it is important that we seek out and embrace change as a positive thing, when it is sometimes easy to fall into the trap of being fearful about what might go wrong.

Think back to ‘that person’ you were and ‘where’ you were a year ago, or five years ago, and you will realise that you have changed. It is inevitable because we constantly face new obstacles and we are constantly offered new opportunities. In many cases the opportunities appear, disguised as obstacles or problems.

Dream, Believe, AchieveThe crucial thing is to create some time and space to think and to plan. Dream about the things you want to attract into your life and don’t forget to dream ‘big’ because dreams have no limits. The only limits we really have are the ones we place on ourself as a result of our own conditioning.

Figure out what it is that you need to do, figure out how you will become the person you need to be in order to have the things that you want and you can make them happen.

Writing-down-goals

Write down your goals

Most important then is to write them down – the act of writing the goals and putting a date by which you will achieve them helps you to make them real and credible to your conscious mind. Break the goals down into manageable chunks and think of some small rewards you can give yourself as you hit the progress targets. Read them out loud to yourself regularly – psychological research has proven that this makes your mind begin to believe that you can do it.

Here’s an example: A friend of mine wants to lose 15 kilos in weight – a daunting task and one with which many people in the Western World will start their New Year. Focussing on losing a kilo a week is far more likely to be achieved, perhaps rewarding yourself with a candy bar when you have lost 3 kilos, or waiting until the weekend to have one as a small reward.

size 10She has a longer term picture of fitting into a certain dress size by a certain date, so the big picture is there for her to repeatedly visualise. Another crucial element though is emotion, because how we feel is a fickle thing.

By focussing on just how great she will feel when she is wearing her small dress, how sexy she will look and how much more confident she will be, these emotions will help her to conquer those days when the spirit may be willing but the conscious will is weak.

Knowing and constantly reminding yourself why you want to achieve these goals is the thing that will make you or break you.

i_can_because_i_think_i_canIt’s never too late or too early, you’re never too old or too young, too bright or too stupid, to go after the things you want for your life and to make them happen.

If you set a goal for this Year, in a year’s time you will still be a year older, whether you did achieve the goal or whether you didn’t.

So, let’s make this the New Year that will shape the most exciting year of your life so far!

Of course, one of the things I believe can help you immensely is to take a vacation, go somewhere on your ‘bucket list’ – a list of places to see and things to do before you ‘kick the bucket’ (die).

Check out these links or just contact me for some great ideas:

www.bucketlistholidays.com; www.holidayspecialsbali.com

or ask me about how you can stay in 5 star resorts around the world at 1 star prices!

So, until we meet again, make this ‘Your Year!’

SelfBelief


Tony’s Viewpoint:

Dream, Plan, Believe, Do, Become and you can Have!